thanks for your help, unfortuantly i was at my other computer trying to fix this and i eventually did... here's how, maybe it should be included in an FAQ some where...

i got it... when litestep loads, after the error pops up you have to click cntl alt f1, then go to run. from run click browse till you get to the Lite step folder, for me its C:\Litestep Open that and inside there should be a thing that says "Restore Default Theme.ink" or something to that extent... open it and run it.