has any coder made a module for xmplay.
theres a lot for winamp (which i never have used)

it would be nice to have it, but if noone uses xmplay then i guess i might have to start learning how to code, but im dumb, lazy, and i have no idea of how to do anything.

Afaik xmplay doesn't offer an API to control in remotely.

teclasuelta: you may use SendMessage module to simulate interface button pressing... or keyboard events...
but I didn't hear anything about xmplay, so I cannot provide more information...